It’s all about balance

Before you will gonna judge me; let me make my point clear- “Neither i support patriarchy nor matriarchy”

You know what is the worst thing that we have been told since our birth? ” If you are a male; you can be insensitive and emotionless but not supposed to cry and similarly if you are a female; you aren’t supposed to do things that will question the capabilities of opposite gender.

Stupid logic! Isn’t it ? Firstly, we are a human being then a specific gender.

I am not questioning ‘How Indian parents raise their children’ but emphasizing the norm that still has been following in many parts

yeah! These norms that we have been following since hundred of years could be blamed. Let’s not talk about the discrimination against women because there already have been  lot of articles discussing about it yet not making any difference. Similarly who cares about men? But the crimes against men are also not less than malefaction against women; the only difference is that – those crimes aren’t discernible and haven’t been given much importance because of the same bogus logic mentioned above : “Men are made to commit crimes not to become victims”

I’m not edifying at all but the disparity in this society baffles me a lot. Here disparity is not about inequality that has been faced by women only but is all about the imbalance thoughts against both of the genders. Still there are so many places in India where if privileges have been given to women either some of them don’t know how to make the best use of it simply because of the illusion; if they do, then their voice would be crushed down or on the other side half of them are misusing the power by stating ‘they are initiating the equality’. This is the biggest issue. Let me get this straight ” Not all men are criminals and not all women are victims”. No no, hold on! I am not disrespecting the gender but making you aware of the reality.
No wonder, Government has contributed their best by providing ample of rights to women but somehow they are still floundering and believe me this society isn’t only harmful for women but for men also. Both have been suffering a lot and need of the hour is to boost both the genders.We’ll not be able to stop domination of patriarchy and matriarchy over each other unless we’ll not have a balanced mentality  about the genders and trust me proving one superior over another is pernicious only. A balanced society is favorable and advantageous society !


Midnight Thoughts

It already has been 2:am, whenever I close my eyes it’s like a dark paradise.These thoughts continuously floundering in my mind, making me unable to sleep. It was well said- Rather than whole day if you start examine yourself at this time you will get to know the real you. Your intuitions, thoughts, emotions are at it’s peak.’Be gentle to yourself’
We often see people doing distress things just to claim that they are being themselves. But why are we targeting just them?  let’s come here and see- we ourselves often react like this.I am not claiming that I am the only one, who is just a piece of perfectness and far away from the mess word. Actually nobody is ! If you find a person like this – be aware s/he isn’t an alien. I mean it’s a human tendency that we all have become ‘mess’, reticulate in our own emotions. We all are just confused souls who dont able to find a way to distinguish what we want and in actual what we need? As a result,  we all running after our wants rather than needs . This has created a big fuss in human life. ‘Perfectness’ word isn’t responsible for this?  Everyone isn’t running after happiness but being perfect. People say they want happiness but happiness isn’t a goal.Now come to point- God hasn’t made anyone perfect, if he would then this life wouldn’t have its own meaning. But the question is – Are we seriously following the true meaning of life ?  

 As far as I know if Adam and Eve  wouldn’t have eaten the apple from the tree of knowledge of good and evil,maybe we would have been living the simplest life but if he would then we would never get to know- what is good or evil? 

 I believe that they have done right ( if this ideology is true ) because knowing the difference between the two( good and evil) is far better than knowing nothing about it. And to know the diffrence we must have to experience both things but why are we afraid of making mistakes? Are you afraid of it ? Ask from yourself. If yes, then dear you have been living other peoples lives not yours. I had read this somewhere- No wonder!  we are second hand human beings who just follow the norms and conditions applied by the society.And I am very much satisfied with this sentence. We aren’t doing something new moreover we aren’t discovering ourselves, just living a life created by this society by a long time.

 Conditions should be applied by ourselves not by others. Little bit selfishness is important for the progress. Give yourself importance. Your soul, need you the most. Feed it with gentle care and eternal love only then you will get you know what you want and what you need. Give yourself time, examine yourself. To know the true purpose look into yourself not outside, Everything is into you.

This life isn’t that much complicated,actually ‘we people are’ who make it complicated.

– Anchal Thakur

In metro – 7:30 am

This giant, massive vehicle carrying a lot of passengers. I can see lot of new faces. I don’t even know who they are but I can assume they all are running for their work, Students for their colleges, youngsters for their offices. Strange faces! Looking here and there, some are searching for seat while some have occupied the space between two coaches – maybe they enjoy such jerks. Quite impressive!

Gradually, headphones has been taken out by everyone to shrink the distance and I am just looking outside. Weather is good. Maybe it will rain ! These jungles, trees , clouds , all are running along with us. The birds are too running in opposite direction. Wait , whoa ! We have left them behind. I didn’t want to leave them behind.This driver couldn’t drive at slow pace ? 

Also I have one doubt, How much time do these pretty girls spend on putting mascara, even so clearly? Cool they are ..isn’t it ? Heck ! I don’t even know how to put that wing just by one stroke. Have Diverted my mind from there and looking beside, Wow! it Seems like students have gotta assignment, working on it. So studious they are while I am here rewinding ‘Hymn for the weekend’ again and again. Am I wasting my precious time ? Who cares? 

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 And Now I have reached  my destination.This is how my traveling time passes.That’s how I daily learn something new, I can see very happy people around me but everyone has their own darker side. I appreciate their ability to carry a mask of happiness despite of the fact – they have their own demons to fight. 

Have a nice day !



 Chirping birds, rising sun, shimmering moon, sea- shores, rain drops on leaves making it appear more green, shining desert, glimmering flowers, blue sky with adorable notions of cloud, twinkling stars in the night . 

This nature – Ain’t it magnificent ?

But how many of us are capable of visualising this true beauty ? Is it so difficult to find happiness? Or we people might have drowned so deep into the kerfuffle of this hectic life  that we couldn’t even able to see it ? Why so much hatred feelings, why so chaos around us ?  Why ?  Why we are living to please everyone but not ourselves? Everyone around us are just serving their purpose. One day everthing will get disappear.One day there is going to be a big void and that void is a part of us. We can’t run away from misfortunes but can learn to mould ourselves with it. So why don’t  we enjoy our finite time, why can’t we clebrate this life,nature and nurture this gift of joy ?

Celebration of life is real freedom, freedom from the past and freedom from the future, live every moment of life – good or bad because the gift of life is life itself.

Definition of celebration can mean many different things, it completely varies from person to person that how one could like to define it. As I started writing this, my notions upon this had eventually gone towards -‘This moment’

Yes, this moment could be your moment of celebration. You don’t need a lot of crackers and sweets to celebrate it. But if you wanna make it bit more twee, you can even bake your own nummy cupcake for yourself. Cute enough ? That’s my way of celebration though ! 

         I celebrate my completeness,

                  Incomplete as I am

        I celebrate my laughter breaking

                    through my tears.

                       I celebrate now.


– Anchal Thakur 


Hello everyone ! I, Anchal welcomes you to my world

I was born in Himachal Pradesh, brought up in faridabad, India. I have big aspirations and goals, little bit fantasizer too but never let my fantasies collide with my practical world. My big big cup of happiness is seeing people smiling because of me. I have a great zest for adventurous life. For me, definition of fun is to travel , travel and just travel. But not just to become tourist but explorer. I had never been good at writing stuffs and same as with the expression of emotions but guess what ? I have started to pen down it and no wonder it has given  new wings to my thoughts.

I will post about life, emotions and happenings around the world along with my thoughts upon it and I make sure that my posts would be impressive and logical.

 Have a good day !